SHREYA SHETTY

Love is undoubtedly the most beautiful thing in the world.It has the power to heal any wound.The magic of love is such that everything seems perfect.But there are somethings we need to remember so that this magic never vanishes of from our life. 1) Expectation :Its human nature to EXPECT.But this is a major cause of heartbreaks all the time.Its always okay to expect a little.But we completely go unaware  when our "little" becomes "too much".When you don't expect there is no possibility of getting hurt.Even the smallest gesture of your loved one will make you happy. 2) Comaparision : Stop idolising other couples.Every love story is special and every love story is different.Some people are good at expressing while some are not.Accept your partner as he/she is and be proud to have them in your lives.Start making your life better in a way that others start idolising you. 3) Give Space :You don't have to be clung to your partner 24*7.For the first

Its the 15th and the last post of the blog marathon.The routine has been fun and challenging.Since i would write my blog post after getting back from work ,the whole day used to go thinking about my next post sometimes scribbling something on the paper in the office. Here is photo of me,getting ready for the new blogpost.This is how i scribble my thoughts when i am at office. Thanks to all my readers,twitter followers and facebooks friends who kept me motivated during these 15 days.I will keep blogging more frequently than before.

Heart-break is the most common thing these days.I don't know how the statistics go but i feel there is a break-up every nano-second. Its one of the most difficult thing to deal with.Sometimes people shatter in a manner that they end up ruining their life .I hate this concept of heart-break.I always want every love story to have a happy ending.But the fact is some turn really ugly. The most common mistake i have seen people coping with a heart-break make is drown themselves in work.You are already dealing with stress and if you are drowning yourself in work its adding up more stress. Though people may see when you work you get out of that heart-break thoughts,i still believe its getting more and more into stress. Instead,people should go on a vacation,do something you love,dance,sing,exercise and just enjoy being single for a moment.You need to get the stress quotient low. Somethings to keep in mind: Love the moment of being single. Hang out with friends.No

There are some people who think a housewife has no work to do than watch daily soaps,go for kitty party and gossip-around.But i feel its time for you all to get a reality check.I have some wonderful home-makers around me who make me respect everything about them. I have been brought-up in a family of working women.So in my childhood days i didnt think the housewives have much to do.At some point of time we all think that way.We think the working women go out and conquer the world and still manage responsibilty.Yes,it is that way.But housewives also have their own shares of duties and responsibilities. Dear Housewives/Home-makers, First of all a big hug to all of you.You make others life-easy. No matter what the world says,you know being a housewife is a full-time job.Your job profile seems simple to the people who are outside.People may say,'What you do is so simple that i can do in a blink of an eye.You just have to watch daily-soaps and discuss about that'.Next time

I just don't have liking for a particular genre.I generally try reading everything.Sometimes i grab a book and i have sleepless nights and sometimes i just give-up on reading just 3-4 pages. But every reader has certain books which are very close to the heart.There are books which you will always want to read again.You just can't have enough of it.Here are some books which falls into that category. THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne THE POWER by Rhonda Byrne THE MAGIC by Rhonda Byrne THE HERO by Rhonda Byrne THE POWER OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND by Dr.Joseph Murphy HARRY POTTER SERIES by J.K. Rowling TELL ME YOUR DREAMS by Sidney Sheldon THE FAULT IN OUR STARS by John Green THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES by Cecelia Ahern 2 STATES by Chetan Bhagat IF ITS NOT FOREVER... ITS NOT LOVE by Durjoy Datta and Nikita Singh TILL THE LAST BREATH by Durjoy Datta THE SECRET WISHLIST by Preeti Shenoy

Some months ago i remember reading a diary which i wrote during my engineering days.I used to write about the important events of the day. When i read that,i felt it was not me who has written it.Sometimes i smiled because i found myself too sweet,sometimes i got angry cause of my stupidity,sometimes i laughed till my stomach hurts reading those routine of mine. Realization of that day:Yes,I have changed. Next thing i did was call up a best friend and ask 'Did such things happen with you.I am feeling like i am reading a stranger's diary'.After a real long discussion i did feel everyone goes through this.(I really thought i was a split personality for a moment.And its defintely not a good feeling). As far as i have discussed it with people and got the conclusion,we all have changed with circumstances and for our own good.We couldn't deal with the situations we are dealing with the same old personality we had.If you ask me,i  would have either gone under d

If you ask anyone what is happiness.There will be certain answers which will be very common: I will be happy when i buy my car. I will be happy when i own my dream home. I will be happy when i marry my boyfriend/girlfriend. I will be happy if i have so much money  etc........ The reason behind them not being happy is simple.They are always waiting to be happy.And the Law of attraction says ,'Your wish is always my command'.That is the reason why your happiness will always seem a distant future. Time to turn it around. STAY HAPPY NOW. The best way and the only way to be happy is BE HAPPY now.Rest all things will fall into place. 1)Be grateful for what you have now.That's when you will attract more of it. 2)Getting bored or stressed out?Take a vacation.Life is too short to crib about things. 3)Worry less.The thing you are worrying about the most will not matter to you after 2 years.Probably you will not even remeber  what the all

I was happy.I had an early day at office or i should probably say,an early evening.Since the server went down i came out of the office early.But i didnt know there was one more surprise waiting for me.RAIN!! The moment i stepped out it started pouring. On a normal day i would have hated it.But today i was out of the office early and i was happy.People who work can totally relate to this.Getting out of the office is the best thing to happen and if its early then the bestest thing. I normally hate rains.I hate all the mess that it creates.Traffic jams,dirty roads and much more.And there are instances too when i love rains-when i just have to stay at home gazing at the rain from window and have a cup of hot coffee, long drive with someone special,drive with friends.I love them a bit conditionally.I just don't want to get out in the rain.That's it. Well today was one such day that i was too happy to bother about getting drenched.So when i am happy even rains couldn't d

18th August, 5.30pm, Ria calls up Rishi for the tenth time.But the call goes unanswered.She is angry and annoyed.Its their first anniversary of being in a relationship. Rishi was her Mr. Perfect until he joined his dad's business.Now she felt that all that mattered to Rishi was his clients.Ria had opened her own boutique but she gives as much attention to Rishi as she did in her college days.And she expected the same from Rishi. 'Hina,I have called this guy for the tenth time now and he is least bothered to answer my calls.I am not calling him again',says Ria putting her phone away on the table. Hina is Ria's best friend and has come to help Ria in the surprise they were planning for Rishi. 'Are you sure Ria?You said the same thing when he didn't receive your call for the second time too',says Hina mockingly while playing a game of candy crush saga on her phone. 'Whatever.I know this guy will ruin up the surprise i planned for hi

Recently in our annual budget we heard our finance minister saying that more IITs and IIMs will be opened. The question is that whether there is a requirement of more number of IITs and IIMs. If you ask a HR  like me, the answer is definetely No.Keeping aside my profession if you ask then its still a No. A student aiming to be a IIT or a IIM graduate is the only person to be happy about it.The probability of him getting to the top notch colleges of the country gets better if there are more of them.But more number of IITs and IIMs means they will surely lose their value in the long run. If you look at the scenario 30 years ago,Engineering was considered a degree of great value.But now that has  completely lost its value.The reason why is simple.The increase in the number of engineering college. Out of the engineering students passing out every year only 15-20 % employable.Its the most pathetic state we can ever reach.The rest are just there with a degree.The same scenario  wi

The last Saturday of the month is always special.Yes, its a holiday for me.That's the most precious and the most awaited day of the month. By the time the last saturday approaches,the task for that day is already fixed.But the most awaited thing about this day is going to a bookstore. As there is a new bookstore opened near my house it seems as if i have reduced my online orders.Though ordering online is easy,I still love to be surrounded by book.If you enter my home or the place i am living now,the first thing you will notice is books. No matter how advanced the technology gets,i hate reading a e-book.E-paper is a strict NO for me unless i am stuck in a place where i don't have any means to grab a newspaper.Somehow i don't get the feel of reading a book.Few months ago, i did try reading and e-book but then i just left reading it halfway.Then i thought of never reading it again.Ohh you call me environment non-friendly.Go ahead!!I love the way i do things. Yes we al

Being in love is the most beautiful feeling.But why do relationships turn sour after few days and months? Are you responsible? The answer is YES. You might have seen couples who were madly in love end their relationship.They might seem as the couple who can never live without each other but then suddenly they can't stand each other.Yes that happens.There are certain things which we neglect while being in a relationship.But at some point the things which we almost neglected ends up the relationship. Some things to be never neglected. 1)Have your own space.No matter how much you love each other,give space to each other.You can't be together for 24*7 and still not get bored.It may seem bliss in the beginning but the magic will fade off eventually. 2)Everybody has their own preferences.Do not sacrifice your choice more than required.There are lot of time where we all need to do something to keep others happy.But that has to be to a particular point.Once you

Few days back went through one of the worst phase of my life.Losing a very close family member is one of worst experience i would say.The phase is on. No matter how much we try to be normal during such moments there will be something that will suck all the happiness out of you.But that's the moment you realise how short-lived we are. We have our own ambitions and our dreams.But running behind that we sometimes forget to get in touch with our family ,friends etc.Yes,we all do that.Our generation has definetely got this bad habit of being BUSY for no reason.We know to go out and party but we sometimes don't have one single minute to talk to someone.The favourite excuse being busy. I am a working professional.I work but that doesn't mean i don't have time for the people in my life.No matter at what time i am called i just get up and catch up with people who means a lot to me.I haven't stepped to my office even one day without talking to my parents.

Just when i was thinking what to blog today,I heard my roommate reading a whatsapp message which had this word.And suddenly i get this idea of writing a blog on it. I normally don't think about this "REGRET FACTOR " much.That's probably because i live my life on my rules.In one  of my job interviews i had this question where i had to tell one thing in my life which i regret the most.And my answer was -Nothing.The person interviewing argued that there has to be something,i did think for a moment but still i didn't remember. Till date, i have done nothing that i have regretted.Do that mean my decisions never failed??No.It did sometimes.But it taught me a lot of things which made me stronger.And the bad things that happend actually made me grateful for the good things i have now. The best way to avoid REGRET FACTOR according to me: 1) Take decision :Its always good to take your own decision.There's nobody who knows you better than yourself.Paren

Are you fond of books? Are you an aspiring author? If yes,then this post is for you. If no,you can still read it.There is no harm in reading my blogpost. I am an avid-reader.And i have this habit of reading 3-4 novels at a time.I have people asking me about how i read 3-4 novels together.Don't i get confused with the storyline?   The answer is NO. In case i get, i just re-read the last chapter.Simple!! Reading ,Reading and Reading i started getting to this habit of writing diaries everyday. If you are a regular reader of my blog,you know how i got this idea of blogging.If not,then you can read this. http://www.shreyashetty2510.blogspot.in/2013/08/the-man-who-made-me-blogger.html My blogging days was going by when one of my friend gave me this idea of writing a book.Though i didnt take his idea seriously at that point of time,i did take it seriously after a few months. Then began my journey of writing. Writing a novel is not an easy job at

Hello Everyone, As promised here I am back to blogging.I don't believe in the lines promises are meant to be broken.I am the one who stand by the saying promises are meant to be kept. For me 2014 is a year of forgetting birthdays. Till last year i was the one who would boast of not forgetting anyone's birthday.Well I am not that person anymore.I don't know when the tables turned but now i really have difficulty in remembering. Thanks to the mobile phones which took the power of remembering  all the phone numbers.Today even though i have to call up a close relative i need to check the number in the contact list of my phone. And now its the social networking sites that we are dependent on.I still do rememeber some birthdays.Thank God for that but rest of them seems to have vanished from my memory.                                                      Sometimes I do wonder that are these things getting us closer or drifting us apart.Before the fac

Hello Everyone,   I am back to this space with an idea of Blog Marathon.I have reasons behind it.I don't do anything without a perfect plan(as my friends say it). Now for people who don't know what is Blog Marathon, Blog Marathon is where you post one single post everyday.The reason behind me doing this is quite simple.I have been very lazy since months together and i need to be little disciplined about my writing.I have noticed  that I don't do any work on time unless there is any pressure on doing that.I always studied on the night before for my exams,I do last moment packing if i have to travel and yes, I work and keep my reports ready because  I have to report every evening to my boss.So unless I have a deadline for anything i don't do any work on time.I need to accept this fact.So i have created a deadline for myself and that is blog marathon. There is only 2 secrets to master anything. 1)Discpline 2)Practice This is just a way to keep me grounded to

Hello Everyone, Blogging Again!!!!! Now this is a blog which is really important. These are the days when everybody is just searching out new jobs.Specially the freshers coming out of colleges.Now i have some really good friends who is going through this and this blog is specially for them. For me job hunting has  really been easy.Now stop saying  that -"She is just lucky".Its not a matter of luck.I just know how to put LOA to use. LOA works in every aspect of your life.You just need to have faith. The one and only key to LOA is GRATITUDE.Be grateful for everything around you.The water you drink,air you breath,the food you eat etc.The day you will start being grateful for all the things around you that's when the magic will start happening, Simple steps to be followed when you are attracting a job: 1)Write down in a sheet of paper or your journal about your dream job.Write everything you want in your job.From the type of workplace,salary,the kind of co

Hello Everyone, Are you excited about this friday?? With the bestselling novel turned to movie,2 States releasing this friday I see lot of discussion being happening about it.People are having so much expectations.The first question being will it be better than the novel.With the promos, it looks like its going to be good.Don't know about it being better than the book but atleast it will live upto the standards of the book. And moreover its under the Dharma Productions banner,it has to be good. Chetan Bhagat is and always been my favourite author though his Revolution 2020 was a complete disappointment.One thing what Chetan Bhagat taught Indians is-TO READ. His first book " 5 point someone-What not to do at IIT" turned out to be best-selling.And after that there was no looking back.3 idiots ,the bockbuster hit movie was inspired by it.Then came the series of his book each breaking the record of the previous one.And 2states remains to be everybody

Hello, I know its been more than a week that i have updated my blog but i needed it to be really good.I didn't want to write something just for the sake of it. I have been overwhelmed with the response i got on my page and thanks to you all!! LOA(Law of Attraction) has helped me to get whatever i want.Sometimes i just think about something and completely forget about it.After somedays when i get that thing which i wanted i am in a state of surprise. Manifesting is that easy!! There is nothing like a difficult tast or a big task for a Universe(This is the most important thing to remember).We all have predefined some tasks as easy and some as difficult. If I tell anybody to manifest a coffee or a flower,they will tag it as EASY on the other hand if i say someone to manifest a diamond ring or a job they will term it as difficult.Its always us who have tagged it as easy or difficult. People who have watched THE SECRET know that ,to manifest follow these 3 simple steps

Its been a long weekend and one of the best weekend i would say.Holi has been always my favourite festival,as it makes life look more colourful.There is a charm in these festivals which makes us feel good about everything under the sun. How nice it would be to go every single day with the same charm.We don't do that because we know there is something called "WORK" and we get some satisfaction about cribbing about work.Yes,that's how it is and we take the pleasure in doing so.And that is the reason we get more situations accordingly. Am i talking about the Law of Attraction(The Secret) ??? Yes I am. I got to know about this law of attraction around 3 years back.I do believe in every teaching of it.It doesn't matter whether you believe it or not,it is how the whole Universe works. It doesn't matter whether you believe in law of gravitation or not.It is there and will be there.If you challenge it and fall from a building expecting you wi

“Anjali….Anjali…. Anjali. Where are you? " “Yes Dad. What   happened?” I ask. The anger in my Dad’s voice has given me hell lot of warning that its going to be a bad day for me. “Do you have the slightest idea what your parents have to go through because of your behavior?” I just see them with a blank face.As far as I know I haven’t done anything.I still try to remember if I have broken someone’s head or atleast leg that my behaviour is being so much questioned.But as far as I know I haven’t done any of these. Putting my fright in the back seat I ask, “I don’t know what you are talking about?” “You don’t know? Ridiculous. Then check this out” he says throwing my report card on the table. “You don’t have even one subject where you are scoring about 90.How much embarrassed should we feel when someone asks about your marks.Your Dad is in such a high position.We are spending so much money on your education.Do you have the slightest idea about it?” interfe

If you are in 10th and 12th Std then you are definitely going to be as good as a celebrity to your family and relatives.The first thing what your parents will be asked when they go to any social gathering is how is their son/daughter doing for the board exam preparation. I have already dealt with that and i know how it feels when you enter a social gathering and suddenly everybody turns around to see as if you are going to fight a war for the country.I always wanted to give a shout "For God Sake its just board exams".Then there are questions regarding the revisions,future plans etc.Thank God I got done with it. More than your parents its your relatives who are interested in your scores.When i was in 12th, I remember getting calls before my first paper of board exam and half of them i didn't even knew who they were and i still don't.My parents wanted me to be polite and just to say a thank you as they were my so-called well-wishers.They are the first ones to