SHREYA SHETTY

If there is anything that every person is looking for irrespective of country, religion, caste is HAPPINESS. The one thing which we always want is to be happy. Everything comes after that and so it is important for us to know to be happy. There was a wrong notion that happiness is something which we can acquire after we do this and after we do that. But thanks to all the spiritual gurus and all the self-help books that came to the market which made people realise it is an inside job.There are lots of researches being done on this topic because it is something someone is looking for. I believe that I am a happy person and I always try to understand why people around me are not happy. Its the happy people who are more productive at work and are successful in their life and it is never the other way round. If you look around you will see someone who is making more money than you, getting a much luxurious car than you own but the research say that they just don't add to happiness...

I have been out of the blogging world since a long time but thinking about getting back since past 6 months. It had to start somewhere and someday and here I am. No matter how Instagram,Facebook and other social media takes my time , a piece of my heart still stays here and will always be here. Well, today lets talk about fears we have and most importantly how we face it. Even the bravest soul have atleast one fear.It maybe from a animal, water, fire or maybe a loss of a loved one.We all have our share of fear and that's okay because we are human.But the most liberating feeling is facing the fear and coming victorious. So let me talk about my fear.Okay, its not about cockroaches today as i have still not got over it.Let us keep that creepy thing to some other day. Well, have you ever feared that what if the things you fear the most turns to be a reality. Have you been there? Most of us have. Most of the time the things we fear the most manifests and the ...

Its Day 10 and I have blogged every single day and completed my blog marathon.Something I need to be proud of need to treat myself for this. Since its the last day I am not going to fill you with loads of philosophical things which I usually do.But yes,habits die harder so here is one last thing before we bid adieu. We always have a lot of expectation.I wish I would have that friend who is there for me all the time,that sister who is a source of support to me,that brother who cares for me,that relationship where I am cherished etc. But what we miss out is why can't we be that person for someone.What we give is what we receive.The more you appreciate things the more you receive,the more love you give the more you receive.So next time when you feel you want "that person" then be that person for someone. If not for anyone else be that person for yourself.Anyone in the world can be a potential betrayer to you but the only person who will be loyal ,love you conditio...

Hope you had a great way.We are half-way through the week and that feels good.Isn't it. Today was one such day where I was not able to come up what to write one my blog.As usual when I don't do anything productive or sometimes tensed I end up scrolling my Facebook page and guess what I did the right thing.Not all Facebook time is productive mine definitely turned to be super productive.I am writing my blog post now and trust me I couldn't have got something to write. APOLOGY. I was just watching one of the videos posted by "Goalcast" page(Do watch them ,they are amazing) and I received one of the most beautiful message. People have a great problem apologizing. Ego has taken a upper hand and I sometimes wonder why.If its my fault I apologise and I don't know why it is such a difficult task to apologise for your fault.This is something I may or may not figure out.But today we will be talking about genuine apologies.Yes,there are some apologies just f...

Hello Everyone, I am a bookoholic. I read fiction, non-fiction, romance, thriller, mystery, chick-lit ,self-help etc. I can read anything apart from science fiction. That’s something I don’t relate to and something I can’t read past three pages. Self-help books are the new cool. There are people who love it and there are people who hate it. I don’t love all of them but some do make a lot of sense and I believe every person need to read atleast one or two self-help books. Even if people say they don’t gain anything they will atleast not lose anything. Good knowledge is anytime useful. Take up any self-help book all they focus is on how to turn your desires into reality and they majorly talk about one simple law that govern the Universe and that is the law of attraction. Law of attraction has been in lot of limelight since the release of the book and documentary “The Secret”. There are enough people skeptical about it but the fact is it holds true.The law doesn’t mind y...

Hello Everyone, Hope you all survived your Monday.I did and this blogpost is the evidence of my survival. So today I plan to share my weird ways of tackling people .Sometimes I find it lame and I have doubts over it but then when I sit calmly i still feel this is how I want to carry it on.I don't know how good it holds for you or will you believe it or not. I believe in a baggage-less life.I don't care about people talking about me.Even if I hear about people talking ill about me my reaction time is going to be for a maximum of 5 seconds.That's the only kind of attention they get and they deserve.So when people talk behind my back all i feel is they are wasting quite a lot of energy to get my 5 seconds attention and I would suggest them to do something to do for their own self.Once I give them their 5 seconds of glory I just bless them for sanity and leave. Killing people with love is my favourite hobby.Have you ever tried this?If not,start doing it ...

Happy Sunday Everyone, Hope everyone out there is having a great Sunday.As I have put in my Post 4:TGIF I am a weekend fan and I feel everyone needs to be happy on a Sunday. I have been reading this book again-"The Power of Your Subconscious Mind".I have some favourite books and I love going back to them.I call them "the feel good books".To name a few-The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, The Monk who sold his ferrari by Robin Sharma and ofcourse The Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling . The Power of Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy is a book i feel everyone needs to read.We have a great power within which is our subconscious mind and its a great servant and a terrible master.Once we know how to master this power our life will be filled with abundance but sadly we don't know its power. Our mind consists of two parts-The Conscious Mind and the Subconscious Mind.The conscious mind is the objective mind.It analyses ev...

Its already been late to put up the new post but then I have been committed to my blog marathon.I  am already winning it. Though I am not a morning person who who wakes up early ,goes for a walk ,do exercise.I do try but then I am more productive being the night owl.That definitely is on the to-do list but as of now let us focus on this post. How do you start with your morning!! Is it like -What a lovely day or Oh hell,why is it morning again? I would like to suggest you that be the former one.Wake up and say "what a lovely day" and your day will be one.The way you start the day ,the energy with how you wake up is how you govern the day with. 1)Wake up with great energy.Sometimes we have dreams that don't makes us feel good when you wake up.Sit on your bed ,don't start your day till you are feeling great.If you are not feeling good then just start thinking about things that you are grateful for.Feel it.By the count of your 5th thing you will change th...

Everyone who knows me personally or knows me through my social media profiles know my love for weekends.Yes, that unconditional love. Weekend for me is "Me time".For my weekends to be good I don't need to party or hangout to the cool places I can just sit at home and stare at the wall and if someone asks how was your weekend I will tell its great.Never ever will anyone hear it from me that weekends were bad. Monday blues are something probably I am born with.I was literally dragged from my home and sent to school and I have a history of biting a teacher or two.Yes,that's how much I love to laze around and I  hate anything and everything who tries to muddle with it. When I started working I started loving the weekend more and weekends are the days I want to completely forget that something called my office exists.I work as a Human Resource person and one basic quality required is to be good to people atleast on their face and show them you care about them an...

Hello Everyone, I believe everyone is aware of the debate that surfaces every two months.If you aren't then here we have it- Is it necessary to stand when the Indian National Anthem is played specially in the Cinemas as it has been made mandatory that the National Anthem will be played before the movie. When I heard that there is actually a debate going on regarding this topic on various news channels I was shocked.Like, who debates whether we have to stand when the National Anthem is played?When we debate  on such things we become a laughing stock infront of the world.Go to any corner of the world and ask the citizens what do they do when their National Anthem is played and what they will reply is they will stand in respect of their National Anthem.We as a country should be ashamed of debating on such matter. Our politicians have an expertise in playing caste based and religion based politics but now they have stooped so low that they didn't even spare our Na...

Its Day 3 of my blog marathon and I am quite happy about actually making it to my blogging world.If you feel I am making a big deal about coming and writing every single day well,it is a big deal for me.I haven't been writing since almost a year and then making myself disciplined is ofcourse a mammoth task.Self-praise aside,hope you had a wonderful day. Recently,I have been obsessed with the concept of happiness.Reason being very simple I find people being unhappy for the silliest reason possible.People have a tendency to find happiness outside while its a inside job and I wish every person on this planet understand this simple concept.Its not the money,power or anything that can make a person happy unless he decides to be happy. If money ,power or material things should make a man happy then every rich and powerful man needs to be happy.But what is generally observed is a rich man is always worried about his profits,his next business strategy,his competitor etc whereas a poor...

I am so thankful that I have made to Post no. 2 in the blog marathon being the lazy person I am. Now this is one more instant post of mine where I was just reading something half an hour ago on one of the social media site and then I came up with this.This is going to be a bit philosophical.I have already given you the warning so reading the post below is completely at your risk. So we being humans and probably brought up in such a way that we always have "comparision" virus which refuses to leave our hard disk no matter which antivirus we use.We always have something to compare around-maybe someone is better with their career,with their marriage life or probably have a cuter kid or if nothing atleast have better phone to get a picture.We have always been said that we need to stop comparing ourselves to others and the only competition we need to have is to be a better person than the one we were yesterday.But this was told to us after horrendously torturing us d...

Hello to the ones who have taken time to read my blogs, If you have ever scrolled through my blog posts you would know i do blog marathon where i update a post daily.Sometimes I have completed the marathon and sometimes I have given up halfway through(Yes;completely being human).Here I am with one more of such marathon for 10 days(23rd October 2017 to 1st November 2017) and if I successfully survive through this then a special post on 2nd November 2017. Why Blog Marathon? 1) Discipline: Its been ages I have done some serious writing.I don't believe in giving excuses.Whatever maybe the reason I am at fault.Even if you are kidnapped or there is a calamity you are supposed to wake up and chase your passion-That's my mantra which i forgot but better late than never so I am here writing. 2) Procrastination : Before Oxford dictionary puts my name as a synonym for procrastination I better start doing something useful in life.Does that mean I wi...

Pictures speak more than words and I leave my readers with this beautiful scene from my morning walk.Our planet is so beautiful.

Weekends are special not because I party a lot on Saturday.Sometimes I may even party on Saturday but I am very particular about my lazy Sunday and there is no compromise when it comes to that. Things I do on weekends: 1)Sleep a lot 2)Eat a lot 3)Read 4)Watch as many episodes as possible of my favourite TV show 5)Just stare at the wall and think about things that don't even matter. You want to know why I wrote about it? I just want to know how difficult is time management of weekend.So many "IMPORTANT" things to do and so little time.Sometimes I wonder why can't we just reverse the way the world runs ? Why can't we work on weekends and have a five day holiday during weekdays.Though I am going to crib even its two day working but still I am generous enough to do that. Its such a great feeling.Isn't it? I have a wonderful Sunday coming up.So keeping the blog shorter. Love you till we meet next.

So National Anthem is again a topic of debate. Two days ago Supreme court ordered all the movie theaters to play the National Anthem before the movie.Then the debate began. Are we supposed to debate? Its the National Anthem being played.So why make a big deal of it.All you have to do is to stand up for 52 seconds.Is it too much? Few months ago we had a debate on should we stand up for the National Anthem.Its the basic thing which was taught in school to stand up in respect of the National Anthem.Why crib about such things?Its not about the ruling party or opposition party its about the country.Its not the party anthem its Indian National Anthem. Social Media is a boon but it sometimes it becomes a complete bane when it comes to things like this.Sometimes we need to stop putting our opinions on matters like this and just go with the flow. Bye till next time.

These days life is so busy with so much to do and very little time left for ourselves.I sometimes wonder when did life take such a drastic turn. Even on such busy and hectic days its important to take some quiet time for ourselves.Just like our body our mind too needs some rest.There is no point going on working for hours together at a stretch when all that the brain requires is rest. Nowadays I have made it a point to take atleast 10-15 mins of time to myself no matter where I am.I am travelling,working or any other thing but this 10-15 mins of my time is not compromised with.All I do is count my blessings.If you are not appreciate what you have then you are not getting more of anything.I had a practise of thinking about my blessings earlier.But then i started using a journal and the feeling is absolute bliss.I someday go to the previous page and read my blessings and the moments are really precious. This is a exercise I feel everyone needs to follow.There is so much negat...

I always make sure that I am looking forward for something.May be its as little as coming home and having my favourite food or something like catching up with a good friend.I always have my weekdays and weekend planned. 1st December is my most waited day as I am participating in a Manifesting workshop.If you have read my previous blog you may know that I am a law of attraction follower.I completely believe in that and it has worked wonders for me in many ways. So one of my favourite person Alex Tripod,who owns her business 'Bliss to Bizz' is conducting this very amazing workshop and I have been waiting for this all these day.She is a bunch of energy and her energy is really contagious.I am all set to dive into this awesome energy tomorrow. The workshop is for 21 days and I am very sure everyone who is a part of this workshop are going to manifest bigger things. If you are unaware of Law of attraction i would suggest you to read 'The Secret'.I am very...

My last blog referred to how its completely normal to give unconditional love keeping your monkey brain aside.Today I am adding the most important ingredient to make your life a little more easier. FORGIVENESS!! What's about forgiveness? Simple.You have to master the art of forgiveness to make your life spectacular. People believe in Tit-for-Tat.Why? I have no answer to that because I completely don't believe in that theory. Tit-for-tat is pressuring your brain to much keeping the clutter inside.You and I don't need it.What other person do to you tell about her/him.You don't have to get to that level and do the same thing to prove a fact.Its such a tiring task.Rather no matter what, you forgive and most important forget it.Why complicate life thinking about something that will not matter after 4-5 years. Forgiving a person gets you out of the baggage and relaxes you.You are more important to yourself than any other thing.Get out of the bagg...

After a long time writing on relationship.Don't know how good it holds for everybody but this is something which I have noticed with people around me.This is not something which holds good only for couple but to any other relationship. We as a generation are calculative.From the number of hours we work on a project to the number of steps we take in a day we calculate everything.And this calculative nature of ours has entered our relationship and trust me its doing no good to anyone of us.Everyone wants a person who loves them unconditionally,with whom they can speak their heart out but nobody want to be that person. Weird!!But that's us. Sometimes we need to understand calculated risk only leads to calculated outputs.If you want to create something big then bigger steps need to be taken.But the fact is we expect things to miraculously change with those calculative love and risk. The biggest fear we hold is what if/she cheats on me?Will I be able to handle a heartbrea...