Post 1: Happy ME+Happy YOU= Happy US

Back to the blogging world.Now that I have almost become the relationship advisor to my friends let me try a bit on my readers.So hold your breath.

Are you happy in your relationship?Yes?Then keep doing what you are doing.All is well.

No?

Let me give some quick tips:

1)Love Yourself: First and foremost, nobody is as important as you to yourself.It may sound selfish but isn't. If you don't love yourself and be happy with yourself you can never end up being happy.Start prioritising yourself.Invest on "YOU" time.It may be even for a cup of coffee or watching a movie or reading a book whatever it may be spend time with your self.

2)You deserve happiness: You need to believe that you deserve to be happy.Don't settle for less.Work on your relationship and that's a full time job but make sure the other person is contributing equally or you will end up hurting yourself.

3)Love and respect your partner :Love and respect needs to go hand-in-hand.If you are missing on any of this ingredient then you are not in the right relationship.And probably its better to move on because continuing this is not less than a disaster.




4)Trust and Loyalty:Cheating on your partner is generally considered cool but well,it's not.Cheating will drain you while you may have to  keep a check on your calls,whatsapp messages,your expenses so that your partner don't figure out.Why work hard on cheating? Instead working the same amount on being loyal would be helpful though its quite a tough in today's world.Well ,loyalty is the new cool as cheating is something quite easy.

5)Spend time:Spend time with each other even during the busiest schedule.No matter how many kids you have don't let the spark fade away.A relation needs to get stronger with years which is not in many of the cases.Go on a holiday,do all the crazy things possible.Most importantly,make beautiful memories.These memories will save your relationship when everything falls apart.
 
Getting into a relationship is easy but you need to work on it every single day to make it flourish.Maintenance charges apply here.So before getting into a relationship check whether you are ready to invest on it.

I wish all your relationships turn to be happy one :)




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