POST 5:IS HE YOUR WORLD?

Being in love is the most beautiful feeling.But why do relationships turn sour after few days and months?

Are you responsible?

The answer is YES.

You might have seen couples who were madly in love end their relationship.They might seem as the couple who can never live without each other but then suddenly they can't stand each other.Yes that happens.There are certain things which we neglect while being in a relationship.But at some point the things which we almost neglected ends up the relationship.

Some things to be never neglected.

1)Have your own space.No matter how much you love each other,give space to each other.You can't be together for 24*7 and still not get bored.It may seem bliss in the beginning but the magic will fade off eventually.

2)Everybody has their own preferences.Do not sacrifice your choice more than required.There are lot of time where we all need to do something to keep others happy.But that has to be to a particular point.Once you are taken for granted then its going to be the same story repeated again and again.

3)Respect each other.If you are not proud  of having him/her then you are not heading anywhere.

4)Have faith in your partner.No matter what happens have faith.That's the best gift to your partner anyday.

5)Love unconditionally."If you buy me this ,i will love you.If you do this,I will love you more"-No,love doesn't happen that way.Your partner will just wave a goodbye.End of the story.

6)Stop being clingy.There is a world outside each other.Go explore it.Its always fun to hang out with your partner.But its fun to hang out with friends too.Go on a break with friends and tell your partner to do so too.

7)When your partner speaks, stop being judgemental and stop giving feedbacks,Sometimes all your partner wants is somebody to listen to.

8)Stop making him/her your world.No they will never be.The moment you do this ,there will come some point where you will lose your existence.You can't just be a shadow always.
 
These things we ignore ,but deep down they will always be there.And when something slightly goes wrong,suddenly all these feelings erupt as a volcano.

Only simple thing to do is to talk to each other.
(When the answer is simple,why do people mess up their lives??)

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