Facing the fear.

I have been out of the blogging world since a long time but thinking about getting back since past 6 months. It had to start somewhere and someday and here I am.

No matter how Instagram,Facebook and other social media takes my time , a piece of my heart still stays here and will always be here.

Well, today lets talk about fears we have and most importantly how we face it. Even the bravest soul have atleast one fear.It maybe from a animal, water, fire or maybe a loss of a loved one.We all have our share of fear and that's okay because we are human.But the most liberating feeling is facing the fear and coming victorious.



So let me talk about my fear.Okay, its not about cockroaches today as i have still not got over it.Let us keep that creepy thing to some other day. Well, have you ever feared that what if the things you fear the most turns to be a reality. Have you been there?

Most of us have.

Most of the time the things we fear the most manifests and the reason is we are actually thinking about it and expecting it to happen.We don't give the Universe a choice but to turn it into a reality and then we blame every other person we know for the worst case scenario.

Trust me,its not easy but its not impossible too. First, accept it has happend(You don't have a choice).Cry if required because once you have cried about it it will matter a little less.

Secondly and the most important thing to remember-Now that the thing you feared the most has happend nothing can go wrong after that.Worst has happend and now whatever will happen will happen for the best.

Imagine a cockroach flies and sits on the top of your head.There can nothing be worse than that so accept it and the next thing is how you get it off your head and also kill it😌.

When the fear manifests look it into the eyes and say this is all the power you have got and now you see mine.

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